Chantal

The Befriending Your Parts Framework

If you struggle to feel good about yourself and safe in your body, a part of you is in survival mode.

And when you're in survival mode, your logic brain goes offline.

So it makes sense that using logic-based or thought-based methods isn't going to be enough to heal and rewire the shame, anxiety, and self-doubt you're experiencing.

Let me know if any of this resonates…

There is a Part of you that...

And/or A part of you…

If any of this resonates, I see you. I know how heavy this can feel.

Now, I want you to imagine something different…

Take a moment and imagine…

Feeling good about yourself and safe in your body.

What would that feel like?
How would that shift how you show up in your life?
What would be different?

Imagine…

Introducing… The
Befriending Your Parts Framework

An integrative approach combining NERVOUS SYSTEM healing, PARTS WORK (Internal Family Systems), and SELF-COMPASSION to help you heal and rewire the patterns keeping you stuck in Inner Criticism, Shame Spirals, Anxious Overthinking, and Survival Mode.

1. Nervous System Regulation

Your nervous system holds onto past experiences—keeping you stuck in survival mode, always on edge, or shutting down when things feel too much. This work helps shift your system from chronic signals of danger to messages of safety so you can finally feel at ease in your body.

2. Parts Work

There are Parts of you that carry the hurt from past wounds, and Parts of you working desperately to protect you from feeling that hurt again. Even the ones that feel critical, anxious, or people-pleasing are trying to help in their own way. Instead of fighting them, you’ll learn how to work with them so you can rewire those protective patterns—creating space for calm, self-trust, and confidence.

2. Parts Work

There are Parts of you that carry the hurt from past wounds, and Parts of you working desperately to protect you from feeling that hurt again. Even the ones that feel critical, anxious, or people-pleasing are trying to help in their own way. Instead of fighting them, you’ll learn how to work with them so they can soften—creating space for calm, self-trust, and confidence.

3. Self-Compassion Work

Move past resistance and fully embody self-compassion—not just think about it.

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Here’s a peek inside The Befriending Your Parts Course Material

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My 3 Tier Program

OPTION 1

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$699 (NOW $599!!)

Access to all BYP course material for as long as this program exists (decades)

OPTION 2

2

6 months of group coaching with me, unlimited access to community and BYP course material.

3 months of group coaching with me, and 1 year access to community and BYP course material

OPTION 3

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Contact me for investment amounts, as we create something unique for you!

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What Clients & Students Have To Say...

Frequently Asked Questions

I can't afford it. What do I do?

I totally get that. It’s an investment. I’ve literally spent tens of thousands learning to feel good about myself and safe in my body. 

And I also want to be really honest–it’s costing you way more in other ways not to take action.

I feel so confident in the BYP that I offer incredible guarantees. 

For Option 1, you have 2 weeks to get a full refund.

For Option 2, if you join for 3 months of group coaching–you have 2 weeks to get a full refund.

For Option 3, if you join for 6 months of group coaching–if you don’t see results within one full year, and can show that you’ve gone through the material, have attended some group coaching calls, and done the work–I’ll give you every single penny back.

I want to take the weight of the decision off your shoulders–because I know it’s hard.

And I also know this works.

So I’m happy to discuss payment plan options with you!

And I always have a limited number of sliding fee spots to make this work as accessible as I can.

You can expect– if you’re going slowly through the material and doing the practices– to see results within the first 2-3 months. Within 6 months, students  start to see huge shifts, such as connecting to their true self, a large reduction in anxiety, joy, a release of shame, compassion for themselves (and their Parts), etc..

The course material is meant to go slow. I suggest listening to 30 minutes to 1 hour of video content per week to give your system the time to digest. This is about healing and rewiring, so the time in between to digest and do the practices are where the healing takes place.

This is so common and natural to feel this way. I speak about this on the webinar at the end. So many students join saying they don’t like groups or community, and then later say it was the greatest piece of their healing. Every single student who has joined the BYP community calls it “the safest space”—and this is so healing to your system. There is something so powerful in not feeling alone.

Does The Befriending Your Parts Framework focus on Nervous System Regulation?

Yes! Nervous system regulation is a fundamental component that always gets overlooked. Nervous system healing is required—and so it’s the first thing we address before moving deeper into parts work and self-compassion work (yet you’ll see how they’re all intertwined as you go). The Befriending Your Parts Framework will give you tools you can use for the rest of your life.

It’s meant for you if you struggle feel good about yourself, to feel safe in your body, and to feel comfortable around others— and you want a clear roadmap to healing so that you can have the quality of life that will make life feel good instead of hard.

The reflection exercises are essential for healing. However, you don’t need to write. You can think or talk aloud to yourself. It’s really about processing. Writing helps to process really well, yet it’s not necessary!
The important thing is that you listen to your body — If it doesn’t eel like the right time to do that exercise, honour that. You can skip any exercise you need to in that moment. There is no pass or fail in The Befriending Your Parts Framework!
It felt important (as a trauma therapist) for me to create a framework that spoke to the effects of trauma and nervous system dysregulation, as this is what is often the root of low self-esteem. I offer reminders at the beginning of each module to listen to the videos in the ways that feel ok for you, to pause when something does not feel ok, and to take as many breaks as possible. The videos are also digestible and easy to understand. My aim in the community is to create a safe space, both through my videos content and also in how I show up for you. I’m here for you the whole way! Many of the students who are in The Befriending Your Parts Framework have experienced some form of trauma/attachment wound, as Self-Esteem is often a symptom of trauma and attachment wounds. We get to the root in The Befriending Your Parts Framework in a way that feels safe and manageable.

What’s Next?

Want to learn more?

Not sure if this is right for you?

Send me a message, and I’ll be honest about whether this is the right fit for what you need.

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1 Month

$199

3 Month

$799

6 Month

$1399